“Sky eye investigation” qingming arrived, you will choose “substitute sacrifice”?Reporters visited the cemetery investigation found…

2022-06-02 0 By

April 3 to 5, qingming small holiday has arrived.This year, do you have any plans to go on a pilgrimage or travel across provinces?How do you place the memory of the deceased?The Department of Civil Affairs of Guizhou Province recently issued a notice on the tomb-sweeping Day in 2022, requiring cemcemies to strictly implement epidemic prevention and control measures, provide people with services such as scheduled tomb-sweeping day, proxy tomb-sweeping day and online tomb-sweeping day, and make appointments in a scientific and orderly way to guide people to make wrong peak tomb-sweeping day and organize tomb-sweeping day activities in an orderly manner.In fact, on behalf of the guest worship sweep, online worship sweep once launched, triggered the majority of netizens hot discussion, some people support and some people oppose.This year, there are still a lot of People in Guiyang qingming festival to choose a guest worship, online worship services.So, how to deal with relevant needs?How to make an appointment?In view of these circumstances, the reporter undertook the relevant interview.Cemetery workers make sacrifices and bow to the dead.”Valet worship” rise of some people support some people against “now popular ‘generation’ word, generation of class, generation of homework, generation of driving…The market economy is convenient for the masses, but I don’t think others can replace the feeling of mourning relatives.”The reporter found that from the “online worship”, “on behalf of the guest worship” of the rise, the netizens debate.”Tomb sweeping is only to help maintain the environment of the cemetery and clean it up,” another user said. “It has evolved from mourning to ritual and task, which is far from the original intention of the traditional tomb sweeping, and filial piety cannot be replaced by spending money.”In the interview, Guiyang citizen Lu Aunt said, “Whether online sacrifice or on behalf of the sacrifice, I think it is out of necessity.I think most people would choose to pay tribute in person if they could.”Aunt Lu said that the older generation has the tradition of the older generation, she would not choose this way of mourning, “even at home to cook a table of dishes, to the dead relatives for dinner and toast worship, is also a way to express grief.””The essence of the ritual is sincerity. If the ritual is as simple as a phone call, what is the practical meaning of the ritual?”Mr. Luo, a citizen, also believes that the traditional mourning ceremony is the carrier of relatives to express their feelings, and “surrogate mourning” deviates from the tradition. “Our family will get together at least once a year to visit the cemetery, which can not be replaced by any amount of money.””The real grief lies in the hearts of loved ones. In fact, both online and offline are just a formality.For those who cannot come back for some reason, it is also a good choice.”In the interview, the citizen Mr. Xing also expressed different views.In his opinion, “valet worship” is only a kind of humanistic care for special people, and there is no need to stick to the form.On behalf of the sweep package is different, service content, price is different.At 10 am on April 2, the day before the Qingming Festival, No. 169 Xianhe Road, Yunyan District, Guiyang city, zhoujiashan Baofuyuan Cemetery’s landline phone one after another.”Hello, please tell me if baofu Garden has a funeral service. What is the specific process?””Hello, please inform us of the tomb number and the name of the tomb owner. We can carry out the sacrificial service according to your choice of sacrificial package or request…”Staff told reporters that in recent days, there have been inquiries on behalf of the guest worship service telephone, inquiring people, some ask whether they will send sacrificial photos, some ask whether they can not remember the number of the tomb, some ask whether they can read a paragraph…The staff methodically responded to all these questions.After communication, the family members will add the wechat account of the cemetery’s customer service staff, then send the tomb location certificate to the customer service, and explain their needs. The staff will quickly register, queue up according to the order of family appointment, and arrange the substitute service.”It also makes it easier for us to send back photos or videos to clients after the ritual sweep is completed.”Zhu Haixing, administrative manager of Zhoujiashan Baofuyuan Cemetery, told the reporters, “During the Qingming Festival, the cemetery will conduct pre-arranged sacrifices and provide free and paid services.In order to make an appointment for family members, they can go to the official account of the cemetery and click on the sacrificial service below to choose. We will send condolences for their deceased loved ones on behalf of family members according to the appointment requirements.”According to the introduction, the reporter click zhoujiashan Baofu park public number to see, the generation of worship services have free generation of worship and 3 kinds of paid generation of worship set options, the price is 68 yuan, 108 yuan, 198 yuan.The free memorial service includes three tablets, flowers, one cup of tribute tea (two cups for both tombs), and family letter reading.And the rest of the generation sweep package is equipped with at least 3 staff, including 1 etiquette personnel, cleaning personnel 1, photo personnel 1, but also increased the cleaning tombstone, laying tribute, etiquette personnel to the tomb three bowing ceremony, as well as fruit, cakes, flowers, yuan bao candle and other sacrificial supplies.According to the booking page, 352 free offerings have been sold, while most of the others chose the first set of 68 Yuan offerings, which has been marked as sold.”We need at least two days to prepare for all the funeral services. If the family members need to read the letter for them, they also need to send it to wechat customer service staff one day in advance.”Zhu Haixing told reporters that some family members offered to help buy some of the deceased loved to eat marinated vegetables, eggs and so on, can achieve family wishes, will try to meet.Cemetery workers on behalf of the memorial tablet.After recording the whole process of the mourning, wechat feed back to the family scene. The etiquette staff wearing navy blue suits, masks and white gloves, and then half-kneeling posture, with a new white towel to gently wipe the dust for the tombstone.After wiping clean, he took the teacup from another staff member, placed the tribute, put a bouquet of flowers, and carefully hung the grave.Then he and his colleagues stood in front of the tombstone, stared at the photo for a moment, slowly bent down, bowed deeply three times, offered tea, and offered condolences and memories on behalf of the family.The whole time, they did not say a word, with the occasional sound of a cellphone shutter recording what they were doing.After, the etiquette staff legs together, took out a card, solemnly read: “Respected Mr. XX, because your children can not personally come to sweep, specially commissioned staff for their memorial…”It had already taken 30 minutes to complete the routine.A staff member takes photos and videos of the whole process.”Hello, Zhoujiashan Baofu Garden has completed your commission.”After the ceremony, the customer service staff will send relevant photos and videos to the client through wechat.”After watching the photos and videos with my family, I was very touched. I really want to say thank you to the staff.””So far, we have completed 30 orders for the free ritual offerings, and more bookings will be made during tomb-sweeping Day.”Zhu Haixing introduced, although the tomb sweeping process is not complex, but in order to ensure that each is careful and serious, the cemetery also assess the situation, set up a generation of mourning team, every day’s work, is dedicated to help family members do mourning service.Reporters learned that Guiyang Siqin Garden, Haitian Garden, Baofu Mountain, Fu ‘an garden and other cemeteries, all said that they provide a substitute offering and network offering services.As a matter of fact, several major cemeteries in Guiyang have launched the service of surrogate sacrifice successively since 2020. Most cemeteries provide free surrogate sacrifice service with unified content.According to the specific situation or the family’s choice of package content, there will be a slight adjustment.If the tomb is two old people buried together, that tribute tea will be two cups;If a family needs to read a passage for them or ask to change the offerings, the staff will record them carefully after receiving them, and then adjust them during the sacrifice.The reporter then consulted guiyang Tianlongshan Cemetery, staff introduction, on behalf of the memorial service needs family members to call reservation, according to the standard service points ABCD packages, the lowest for the “green warmth” package 128 yuan, including the etiquette teacher net tablet, flowers a pot;The highest “blessing offspring” package is 198 yuan, and the service items include clean tablet, 1 pot of flowers, 1 plate of fruit offering, 1 plate of cake, 3 columns of incense, 1 pair of candles, and two pairs of white wine.”The whole process of sacrifice will be recorded by a cameraman, and when it is complete, it will be reported back to the family.””The worker said.Family members left public messages at the online memorial hall.In fact, in addition to offering sacrifices on behalf of others, several major cemeteries in Guiyang have also opened online sacrificial services through wechat public accounts and official websites.And this way, also obtained the favor of many families.Because of his work, Mr. Jin, who has always been an avant-garde concept, chose the online ceremony to express his grief for his father.He entered the cloud memorial hall through the mobile phone platform public number, can see the “memorial hall” dynamic.Click the button to enter the online message wall.Here, you can see those online memorials that are open to the public, and under each one, visitors can leave comments freely.After a general understanding, Mr. Jin clicked the “online memorial hall” to create the button, here there are personal museum, double museum, ancestral hall to create choices.Kim enters the editing mode by clicking on the “personal library”, where he fills in his father’s name, birth date and death date before uploading a photo and choosing whether to set an access password.After all the information was edited, Mr. Kim solemnly wrote down what he wanted to say for his father.Online sacrifice online memorial editorial page.”Not only tomb-sweeping Day, after anytime and anywhere can here to leave a message to his father, think of him to come here and talk to him.”Instead of setting “public” as others do, Mr. Kim set an access password.Looking at the page, he involuntarily folded his hands and said something silently to end the special commemoration.Reporters see, online memorial and all network personal home page, in addition to those specific information, the final decision of its style and effect, more depends on the choice of scene and background music.And the system will provide a lot of material: some background flowers, some blue as the sea, some sad music, some gentle peace.Zhu haixing concluded: “In fact, at a time when the flow of people is becoming more frequent and more and more people are becoming foreign visitors, many people feel guilty about not being able to visit their hometown.And more people choose to worship on behalf of the Internet and online, but also this part of the crowd.”In the interview, some citizens still said that online sacrifice, remote sacrifice this way of low carbon environmental protection, is worth promoting, but “on behalf of the tomb” this way, is still worth discussing.Tombs are not allowed to carry firecrackers, incense, candles, paper and other burning goods.Field martyrs’s necessary to make an appointment, and every day in the number of restricted on March 22, the guizhou province home office during the qingming festival in 2022 martyrs’s announcement, the cemetery, strict implementation of the epidemic prevention and control measures, and by moving the end of the service, WeChat public number, such as telephone hotline service channel, provide the martyrs, martyrs, martyrs’s online booking and other services.Information such as appointment methods, dates and transportation routes should be made public in the form of notices and announcements to guide the masses to make false peak visits and organize activities in an orderly manner.Many cemeteries remind that in order to reduce the flow and gathering of people, one number is reserved for each tomb, and each reservation number is limited to one car of five people registered for sacrifice, and they should enter the park at the same time.Before entering the park, staff should show their reservation code, health code and travel code and check their body temperature. The health code is green, their body temperature is normal, and they should wear masks properly.During this period, the park advocates flower sacrifice, firecrackers, incense, candles, paper and other inflammable and explosive products are not allowed in the park.The reporter learned that during the Qingming Festival, guiyang cemeteries release 600-1,000 reservation numbers in the morning and afternoon every day (subject to the public number of cemeteries), and individual cemeteries require that the time of mourning should be controlled within 60 minutes.Source city news Guizhou Daily sky eye news reporter Gao Qin editor Zhang Chen Hu Rui editor Zhao Hongbin Liu Gang Shi Yuling